Re: Is there True Friendship Between Genders?

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Avatar photoSascha

you know there was a post in the China Daily Show about this …

I don’t mean to make fun of you, but the language you use to describe your problems sounds funny in English. I am pretty sure you already have feelings that you may think are “love” but are actually what we in the West know as “puppy love” or, in the worst case scenario, “obsession”.

my advice is to just relax and enjoy the messages when you receive them and reply with an open heart. Stop thinking too much about everything, if that is at all possible. Your obsession will destroy the relationship (if this were a Western man, for sure), but perhaps Japanese men are familiar with the special way Asian women show their affections.