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September 13, 2012 at 2:38 pm #20896joshua chouParticipant
gay bar? where is the gay bar? is that dangerous?
September 14, 2012 at 1:52 am #20901BrendanModeratorI was hoping this would be a more epic thread.
Joshua I can’t decide if you’re legit, or just ‘taking the piss’ as us English folk would say. I have to wonder how old are you?
My 2 cents if you’re serious… Chengdu is said to be one of the most gay friendly cities in China, and there are many gay friendly hang outs to be found here. I don’t think you’ll have too much luck requesting ‘gay friends’ on an open forum (maybe the classifieds?), but would very likely meet new people immediately if you ventured out.
And if you do happen to make arrangements to meet anyone privately for the first time, do it in a public place.
Good luck.
September 14, 2012 at 2:56 am #20910oukMemberQuote:gay bar? where is the gay bar? is that dangerous?I don’t know if it is dangerous in gay bars, so I do not suggest it. If you are gonna to go there to get some friends, the only suggestion I can give is you have to take some effort to find a descent gay bar and do not easily take a random drink from a random stranger!
Plus, I just know it is risky if you try to find a random foreign guy naively without any kinds of concern and guard on internet:D.
Quote:And i am sure that you may know it is not allowed in china because of chinese people’s traditional thought. Many people hate us.I assume you meant gay marriage, as far as I’ve already known, most countries in the world don’t allow gay marriage currently, including some main countries, like the U.S and Russia.
I think Chengdu is a very tolerant city, the most people are nice. so no need to be upset or to care about how a small group of people judge you, just keep your head up and act like “I do not give a shit”:D! Personally, I do not agree many people hate you, maybe most straight guys are just not very interested in you but I can not agree they hate you. Trust me, there are people who like to judge you everywhere you go, especially when you go to a traditional christian country.
And I also think a lot of weird Chinese girls are big fans of gay literature 😀
In conclusion, you don’t have to pin ALL your hope on westerners, there are also enough Chinese sites for meeting gay friends, but as what I told you, have some guard to random strangers no matter what nationality they are! And please just remember, just feel good about yourself and learn to embrace it.
September 14, 2012 at 4:16 am #20921VincentParticipantLive the American dream!
September 14, 2012 at 4:16 am #20989VincentParticipantLive the American dream!
September 14, 2012 at 4:35 am #20923CharlieKeymasterQuote:Live the American dream!In a way, I think that really is the American dream. To have the freedom to just be who you are.
Quote:Trust me, there are people who like to judge you everywhere you go, especially when you go to a traditional christian country.This is also very true of America. It really depends if you’re in the “Free” part or the “Religious” part.
September 14, 2012 at 4:35 am #20991CharlieKeymasterQuote:Live the American dream!In a way, I think that really is the American dream. To have the freedom to just be who you are.
Quote:Trust me, there are people who like to judge you everywhere you go, especially when you go to a traditional christian country.This is also very true of America. It really depends if you’re in the “Free” part or the “Religious” part.
September 14, 2012 at 4:49 am #20994FedericoParticipant… “religious” part and “free” part can coexist in a people …
September 14, 2012 at 4:49 am #20926FedericoParticipant… “religious” part and “free” part can coexist in a people …
September 14, 2012 at 5:01 am #20997VincentParticipantQuote:… “religious” part and “free” part can coexist in a people …Nobody said it can’t. Charlie is talking geography.
September 14, 2012 at 5:01 am #20929VincentParticipantQuote:… “religious” part and “free” part can coexist in a people …Nobody said it can’t. Charlie is talking geography.
September 14, 2012 at 5:23 am #20999FedericoParticipantSorry but i don’t understand meaning of geographycal part “free” or “religious” …if he said – To have the freedom to just be who you are – that I agree, I think he speak about people not location…
September 14, 2012 at 5:23 am #20931FedericoParticipantSorry but i don’t understand meaning of geographycal part “free” or “religious” …if he said – To have the freedom to just be who you are – that I agree, I think he speak about people not location…
September 14, 2012 at 6:10 am #21000VincentParticipantFor what it’s worth I don’t know anything about religion in the US. That’s just how I interpreted his sentence. You may be right.
September 14, 2012 at 6:10 am #20932VincentParticipantFor what it’s worth I don’t know anything about religion in the US. That’s just how I interpreted his sentence. You may be right.
September 14, 2012 at 6:17 am #21001FedericoParticipantI interpreted his sentence too, so Charlie help us!
September 14, 2012 at 6:17 am #20933FedericoParticipantI interpreted his sentence too, so Charlie help us!
September 14, 2012 at 6:46 am #21008GAVVIEParticipantJoshua. Many years ago to be gay was to be happy. No more. China, like many countries, have laws to protect innocent citizens from people like you! You short, or he short? Do what some African tribes do. Homosexual is the word. This is sex and shit combined. Disgusting.
One of the reasons of the fall of the Roman empire.
The risk of anal cancer for homosexual men rises by an amazing 4,000 percent and doubles again for those who are HIV positive. According to the Centers for Disease Control, homosexual men are a thousand times more likely to contract AIDS than the general male heterosexual population.
And there are people on this site who support you???
September 14, 2012 at 6:46 am #20940GAVVIEParticipantJoshua. Many years ago to be gay was to be happy. No more. China, like many countries, have laws to protect innocent citizens from people like you! You short, or he short? Do what some African tribes do. Homosexual is the word. This is sex and shit combined. Disgusting.
One of the reasons of the fall of the Roman empire.
The risk of anal cancer for homosexual men rises by an amazing 4,000 percent and doubles again for those who are HIV positive. According to the Centers for Disease Control, homosexual men are a thousand times more likely to contract AIDS than the general male heterosexual population.
And there are people on this site who support you???
September 14, 2012 at 8:03 am #21015BrendanModeratorQuote:And there are people on this site who support you???Aaaaaand GO…..
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