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  • #20947
    Avatar photoBrendan
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    And there are people on this site who support you???

    Aaaaaand GO…..

    #21018
    Avatar photoCharlie
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    … “religious” part and “free” part can coexist in a people …

    Perhaps I can clear this up:

    The United States is a progressive country that was founded on the principle that everyone is free to pursue what makes them happy. Including gay men in the military, as depicted in the photo above. Although those soldiers are American, that image is controversial because in many parts of the United States it’s commonly believed that homosexuals are sinners in the eyes of God. That is the religious part that does not really include the freedom to be openly gay without being ostracized, bullied, and generally not treated as an equal.

    #20950
    Avatar photoCharlie
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    … “religious” part and “free” part can coexist in a people …

    Perhaps I can clear this up:

    The United States is a progressive country that was founded on the principle that everyone is free to pursue what makes them happy. Including gay men in the military, as depicted in the photo above. Although those soldiers are American, that image is controversial because in many parts of the United States it’s commonly believed that homosexuals are sinners in the eyes of God. That is the religious part that does not really include the freedom to be openly gay without being ostracized, bullied, and generally not treated as an equal.

    #21019
    Avatar photoCharlie
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    And there are people on this site who support you???

    Yes. It’s his personal choice, not yours or anyone else’s.

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    One of the reasons of the fall of the Roman empire.

    That is ridiculous. Educate yourself, please. Decline of the Roman Empire

    #20951
    Avatar photoCharlie
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    And there are people on this site who support you???

    Yes. It’s his personal choice, not yours or anyone else’s.

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    One of the reasons of the fall of the Roman empire.

    That is ridiculous. Educate yourself, please. Decline of the Roman Empire

    #21022
    Avatar photoChris Ziich
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    …straight people also like butt sex

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    #20954
    Avatar photoChris Ziich
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    …straight people also like butt sex

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    #21026
    Avatar photoFederico
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    Thank you Charlie, now I understand better your thinking… about Gavvie, your speaking is your personal idea and not of all the people on this forum… this is a lesson for the life, for life in a quiet and friendly community…

    I’m Italian and I’m sure when I say that the Roman Empire fell for many reasons but not for the “sexual difference” of the people!

    From Charlie’s link:

    Many theories of causality have been explored and most concern the disintegration of political, economic, military, and other social institutions, in tandem with barbarian invasions and usurpers from within the empire

    #20958
    Avatar photoFederico
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    Thank you Charlie, now I understand better your thinking… about Gavvie, your speaking is your personal idea and not of all the people on this forum… this is a lesson for the life, for life in a quiet and friendly community…

    I’m Italian and I’m sure when I say that the Roman Empire fell for many reasons but not for the “sexual difference” of the people!

    From Charlie’s link:

    Many theories of causality have been explored and most concern the disintegration of political, economic, military, and other social institutions, in tandem with barbarian invasions and usurpers from within the empire

    #21069
    Avatar photoEric
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    go to chunxi lu. lots of gay guys there shopping.

    there’s 2 gay bars near the vacinity of chunxi lu as well. “kai yue guang chang” it’s called BL. across from SOHO is another one.

    There are also people who use iphone apps such as Skout, Jack’d, and Scruff.

    #21682
    Avatar photojoshua chou
    Participant

    Hey guys,

    firstly thanks for your reply. And i have to say sorry because of the later of my reply. You know i was verry busy these days due to the problem of getting a scholarship.I need to get a lot of proof to support me.

    Actually i don’t know if it is appropriate to post here. But i just want to have a try. As far as you know i’m a college student. Nearly spend all my time at school.I want to change and adapt to the society. But at the same time a little bit scared.

    I want to make gay friends don’t mean we must need sex. You know i have been keeping virgins for 20 years. For me a hug is ok. Aha.don’t know what to explain.

    Hope you all will have a nice day.

    #21683
    Avatar photoouk
    Member
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    You know i have been keeping virgins for 20 years. For me a hug is ok. Aha.don’t know what to explain.

    Hope you all will have a nice day.

    I am a straight guy, but I feel you are so sweet. 😀

    You can consider what I told you and good luck.

    #21746
    Avatar photoouk
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    You know i have been keeping virgins for 20 years. For me a hug is ok. Aha.don’t know what to explain.

    Hope you all will have a nice day.

    I am a straight guy, but I feel you are so sweet. 😀

    You can consider what I told you and good luck.

    #21684
    Avatar photoVincent
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    i have been keeping virgins for 20 years.

    Where do you keep them?

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    #21747
    Avatar photoVincent
    Participant
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    i have been keeping virgins for 20 years.

    Where do you keep them?

    KYyH1.jpg

    #21685
    Avatar photoouk
    Member
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    Where do you keep them?

    I think he meant he has been a virgin for 20 years. It is kinda sweet for me that he said he just needs a hug. So here goes my free hug to you, joshua chou.

    #21748
    Avatar photoouk
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    Where do you keep them?

    I think he meant he has been a virgin for 20 years. It is kinda sweet for me that he said he just needs a hug. So here goes my free hug to you, joshua chou.

    #21686
    Avatar photoJerryS
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    Lets barter for Virgins!!! I got a snickers’ bar here.. What can i get? 😛

    #21749
    Avatar photoJerryS
    Participant

    Lets barter for Virgins!!! I got a snickers’ bar here.. What can i get? 😛

    #21767
    Avatar photoLucy Knowles
    Member

    Hey Joshua,

    I don’t know if you can get GayDar in China? It’s got a pretty sexual edge to it but it’s the dating site my friend met his long-term partner on!

    Just to add my voice to the throng – brave and true decision to come out in your situation; being gay isn’t a choice or a moral decision,and definitely not a ‘lifestyle’ – it’s as much an unalterable part of you as your hair and eye colour.

    I reckon people on here have it right, too – if you can pluck up the courage to check out the gay scene here in Chengdu and meet some new friends that way, everything will seem easier – sometimes it just helps to talk to people who’ve been in your situation.

    All the luck in the world, you are doing an amazing thing and I promise you’ll have loads of good times as a result!

    L x

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