Aaaaaand it went up! lol… My initial post went up like a whole bunch of… moderation language? What’s the term for that btw?
Anyways, just to avoid being like a troll by posting multiple times in a row, I’ll reply to this thread here:
I think Charlie is just spreading tough love here lol. The logic is this: OP most probably will get very few responses, if any, considering the amount of info he gave out. Will you randomly add someone from online without knowing a little bit more about the said person other than his/her name? I know I wouldn’t. Not to mention OP is looking for “love” here so he most definitely need to give out more info about himself to better his chance. “Love” is a strong word lol. Assuming OP is really trying to make friends or “find love”, I don’t see anything wrong with Charlie’s comment/advice although it may sound harsh- but Charlie’s avatar is a “rude boy” so it already is a disclaimer in itself… right? 😛
I personally wouldn’t mind any criticism as long as it’s constructive- “忠言逆耳利于行。” Took me years to get to this point but the end goal is always to better yourself. And Kevin, trust me, Charlie is a “towering” (pun intended) intellect spreading wisdom to deserving learners (because you can learn a lot from him) or undeserving fools, it’s your choice to pick your stance, but choose wisely. 🙂